whenever I click on the link it never loads, it seems to be trying but fails. i can do everything else but this on the site. but I really need to be able to access my PMs, I do business through it...
Was probably someone changing their username. That's the reason we don't allow everyone to freely change their usernames because of what it does to the DB servers (and specifically the private message table). It takes one of the tables that stores private messages out of commission for a bit.