seems like your band needs a pow-wow. Does your band even talk? And I mean talk about what is going on as a band. Maybe it's time for one. Don't quit just because you think your band does not need you. You guys need to communicate. A group hug is never a bad idea!!
Anything worth having is worth fighting for. Quitting is not a solution. You should talk with the band and discuss the issue.
well, now that you mention it, yeah... i do admit the band doesn't have that time to talk... i'll try to initiate one...
yeah that's what i really wanna do. but the problem is i don't know how to open it up. i don't know how to start, where to begin, what to say... i wanna talk about the situation and about what i feel but i don't know what are the right words. they might misinterpret me or worst, they might think that im over acting or something...
Why not look on the situation differently before you start talking to them. Give the new member a time to fit in to your band, try to make friends with her. And as a leader of the group give specific instructions to them on what she will do. Give it some more time before deciding to talk to them. Then if it is really needed to talk to start with the person that you think is closest to you in your band. Hope things will be better for you and your band. God Bless....
it has been three weeks since the new members joined the band. we're friends already. and about instructions, im not fond of giving instructions. when they ask for my opinion, i talk. but if they don't, i just keep quiet. i don't wanna impose rules or whatsoever...
If that's so try to start talking to the person in your group that you trust most and who can easily understand you. I know you can do it girl don't just quit on something you treasure most. Quitting is not the answer. I will include you in my prayers.
Thanks for all the advices, suggestions, comments, and your opinions regarding this matter.. we kinda talked about our band yesterday and they told me that they don't wanna let me go. they have stated their reasons and i was so happy because they made me realized that i have a big role in the band and that they really need me. Thanks a lot for all your help and prayers
Well, let's have a track then. Record your best effort and upload it as an mp3 so we can all tell you if you're any good or not.
sure... as soon as we have recorded our demo cd, i'll upload our songs on the net and i'll let you know about that
I love to hear voice in falsetto. That's why I used to collect Bee Gees Mp3. For a change I wanna hear it from you.
i tried to record our practice last sunday but the record sucks... it has this echo and crazy and weird sounds.. LMAO...