I went to a wedding message board today to ask a question of brides. Basically, I was thinking about giving a wedding dress away and my wife and I were debating the value of the prize I was going to give. I posted my question and my account was deleted. I didn't post a link to my website, and no link in my profile because I really just wanted an answer to my question - I didn't want to be a troll. It's of course within the moderators purview to do so, but I've been on the internet since well before the WWW and I've never been banned from anywhere before. So I'm turning my anger into motivation. My new years resolution is to turn my monthly visitor volume into my daily visitor volume. Enough learning and experimenting and playing around with styles and images and wasting time. It's time to put all my DP knowledge to use and put some serious substance (quantity and quality) out there on my site - and spend some serious money promoting it.
Building up is always the exciting part for me. I always have to keep adding stuff, and letting it grow. It's like a plant, if you water it, it will live and release oxygen. This allows you to breathe more oxygen and better your health, living longer. Hope that is a good enough metaphor. good luck with the wedding site.