Give us at least some hint. Like do you want ppc,ppa,... What is your site ninch.... There is too many great affiliate programs that pay and look good.
i am looking for affiliate program for these three sites (for each different): muchbettersex.org (i find passion.com and adultfriendfinder.com) leelio.com (now i have CPays) motorolav360v.net and i dont know which program is the best (pay good)
For dating and ringtones, try out Millnic Media. For some good offers all around, I used Shareasale but these two networks are no big secret. Copeac is a good one all around as well, of course, and so is Market Leverage. Good luck.
There are many good affiliate programs. If they are good to you depends on if you are good at promoting them and are in the right niche. Just because they are good for someone, doesn't mean they will also work well for you.