I am fully frustrated......!!!!!

What? You're welcome...

 

If you can't understand what he is writing, you shouldn't be posting here. Not necessarily every one here is an English speaker and you have to live with that mate.

Back to the topic, I won't suggest you to leave home rather just ignore what they are saying (if they are wrong) or else change yourself to what they want you to be. Leaving your house would be troublesome for you as you are just 14 and you probably don't know the rules of your country (I guess you do ). Just be positive and stay calm, one day they will realize that they were wrong and that will be your day.

 

i hav similar prob, people want a reason to say something so they shoot at u, its sili but irritating, ive faced a lot of such , best way to avoid is get urself busy in something

 

yeh i used to be in the same situation, i stood up, started a business, worked damn hard and now the business is worth thousands, and i proved them wrong, which was my main aim, but in doing so, i now have a life long business worth a lot of money.

 

It's not up to me to judge things like these but.. aren't you 14? Who on earth would force a kid to earn for his living or kick him out? I don't think your parents would do that either, it's probably just that at your age everything and everyone surrounding you are "bad". At 14 you are only starting to discover how real life goes but it's too early for understanding it. That's why it gives you a bad taste. But things will change, you'll see.

I'd say take it easier. You've got plenty of time time to be a grown up.
Enjoy being a kid!

 

This is fucking disgusting. It really pops a vane in my forehead to hear such things.
Tell me Jay, do you have some kind of organizations nearby that help young guys like yourself if they have trouble at home ?
Also, do your parents even work ? Or you do all the things ?

Regarding what they say about you - never listen to them.
Never let people let you down. You do a very good job at this young age, you should be proud of yourself. You have nothing to prove to them, only to yourself.
Don't let words take you down. Give no meaning if your parents say you are worthless, or that nothing will come out of you in the future.
Really fucking pisses me off.

 

I have changed my behavior, now its positive they have also seen little changes in 1 day for me... Now i should tell you one thing that i dont go to school because i am currently learning in 11th and according to my standard 11th is for rest or holiday.. My parents are rich not poor or middle class...

Great suggestions! Thanks to everyone.

Jay

 

Couldn't agree more, I say, Find your own path. Do what makes you happy and Most drivers in the Uk are terrible.

 

i think its teenagers misunderstanding problems , it will solve when you reach at 20th age and next age limit is 25 ( some other type of problems here ) and 30 , 35 , 40 .... after the 40 age you never won't be admit in problems like this ... and you won't come to this kind of threads .

 

I don't think it's a teenage misunderstanding at all. They beat him when he tries to speak up for himself. That is not ok, that's abuse. And I wouldn't think of that as positive because you may come to like it, and treat others the same way.

I would also like to know if there is some organization that you can go to for young people if you are having problems with your family. If not, I say to try to stand the pain until you can earn enough money, move out, and rent a place.

Just trust in yourself and think positive about yourself no matter what anyone says about you. Also try not to talk back to your parents to minimize them from beating you. Don't try to hold things in that will make you feel like you are going explode and do something bad. Try to find a good way to release those feelings.

 

sue your parents..
Its illegal to have child labour in India.

 

Just don't think negative always.
Just earn money and show your parents and family members what you can do and you are eligible also.
Cheers

 

What is this?

You are saying your age is 14 and you are studying 11th??????
This is not possible in Gujarat.

You should be in 8th or 9th standard only...

Please tell us the truth. I am from same city...LoL..

 

Anything is possible if you have "money" in your hand (well , at least in India) .

- DarkX

 

What the hell? I am great in studies i have got 2 double promotions because many of teachers and priciples have think that i am great in studies that is why i am at 11th in this age, Today i have asked to my parents that i am doing alot of work for this house and also for you, than they said that we want to made you the most intellegent and wonderfull boy thats why we tries to get some great qualities in that when you will tell someone about you than he will definately think how wonder is this boy.

Jay

 

Jay,

Think this for a moment. What will your parents think or feel once they see that you have publicly started this thread and talking about them to people you don't even know.

P.S : I'm writing this coz i can see you have feelings for them and at the same time RESPECT for them.

Time to close the thread. Don't you agree with me ?

REMEMBER : There is no problem unless you give importance to a Problem.

Ace Tuku

 

Yes you are right sounds like problem is solved Now this thread should be closed...

Jay

 

Yes you are right,SCRIPT WALKER of dp

 

struggle is life, work hard, it'll help you everywhere

 

I have the same problem as you Jay.......

I believe I should run away from home but if police catches me...Ill be sent back home..