Does any on have a guide how to set up a server and how to put up the sites, even witch prog i need (i think i need a guide for idiots)
Can you tell us a bit more about what you're working with here? i.e., Operating system, control panel (if applicable), etc?
Howtoforge has good Linux based guides for these sort of things. Your choice in operating system as well as which software (Apache, lighttpd, nginx, etc) would be needed in order to help you.