How to motivate a lazy ass like me?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by ahkip, Nov 26, 2006.

  1. #1
    I am lost...no goal, no passion...i don't even want money...

    My biggest problem is that i don't know what i want...i don't have any direction so i just do a little bit of this and a little bit of that...i am doing ok right now..which is even worse since i don't have to work hard...

    I am just stuck....
     
    ahkip, Nov 26, 2006 IP
  2. disgust

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    #2
    adderall? ;)
     
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  3. emthree

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    #3
    There is no problem that liquor cannot solve.
    Alcoholism is the answer.
     
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  4. Finale

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    #4
    Look for a goal?
     
    Finale, Nov 26, 2006 IP
  5. ahkip

    ahkip Prominent Member

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    #5
    That's what i 've been trying to do...but so far..none...it is just sad...
     
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  6. Finale

    Finale Peon

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    Then make it your goal to find a goal....
     
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  7. marmbo63

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    #7
    I Know exactly how you feel - Nothing motivates you :( - You would rather be out on the street than even lift a finger to prevent eviction - You have never had or you have lost your carrot so to speak - You are just smart enough to maintain a nearly nonexistent life.

    A lot of times it comes from growing up in a high level of chaos - Some people act in kind and create chaos some like yourself and myself react by doing nothing - but wanting the silence -

    :rolleyes: Or you could be a big cheese eating doof that is just messing with our heads! :rolleyes: Either way - I wish the best for you and hope you find your goal/carrot/motivation - I am still looking too...:cool:

    I see we also share a friend in Stewie! - lol
     
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  8. klown

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    #8
    Maybe you should try learning something..

    You could become very good at playing pool, or learn ruby on rails.. Or maybe learn german..
     
    klown, Nov 26, 2006 IP
  9. marmbo63

    marmbo63 Peon

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    All kidding aside - If you had not written that post - I was about to in a couple more hours - So you are not alone - Glad you could reach out - maybe we could help one another when things get stupid and our wiring comes unraveled.

    PM me sometime and we will chat...

    On a another note: Will someone go play a couple of games on my site - need the traffic!!!! ;)
     
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  10. rosiee007

    rosiee007 Notable Member

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    #10
    I think you should take a break and relax for some time. Maybe you're overworking which is making you like this. Go out with your friends, and enjoy life :) You'll feel much better after that.
     
    rosiee007, Nov 26, 2006 IP
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    forumrating Notable Member

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    #11
    you can become a saint if you don't want anything with life, relax on top of a mountain and enjoy the natures beauty :)
    don't forget to carry a laptop together , keep in touch with dp
     
    forumrating, Nov 27, 2006 IP
  12. scart3r

    scart3r Notable Member

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    #12
    Hey! Pm (or IM) me if u want. My life is kinda crappy atm - might make u feel better...lol

    Is hard to find something u love if everything looks sucky, but sometimes just chatting about stuff can help u find what u enjoy doing - and then just do it
     
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  13. Bondat

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    #13
    Go for a vacation. This will refresh your mind.
     
    Bondat, Nov 27, 2006 IP
  14. irka

    irka Well-Known Member

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    #14
    May be you should try taking drugs, It costs nothing and you never get bored. :rolleyes:
     
    irka, Nov 27, 2006 IP
  15. onedollar

    onedollar SEO Consultant for Hire

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    #15
    are you sure?:D
     
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  16. 007

    007 Well-Known Member

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    #16
    Well, what do you enjoy doing? Nothing?

    Judging from your 4,000+ post count here, you obviously enjoy posting in forums. Is the forum in your sig yours or a paid link? If not, they start a forum. I started my first forum 5+ years ago after realizing how much I liked forums. Now I have 6 and they keep me from becoming too bored. :)

    Either that or start a new site about something that you enjoy. It's easy to get bored and depressed when your site has no traffic though, so be sure to have a marketing strategy planned out ahead of time. :)
     
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  17. w3bmaster

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    #17
    Hmm i think a girlfriend will motivate you enouf :)
     
    w3bmaster, Nov 27, 2006 IP
  18. IlieR

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    #18
    If a girlfriend did not so far, then I don't know, man.....
     
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  19. scart3r

    scart3r Notable Member

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    #19
    Maybe boyfriend.... :p
     
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  20. phree_radical

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    #20
    Why do you need any motivation? p;
     
    phree_radical, Nov 27, 2006 IP