I could not understand the thread in actual. in the heading you are asking "referrals wanted" At the end you are saying "...gets referrals" First of all make it clear, you want traffic or you want Signups On the other hand, Also make it clear which age group and locations you want the referrals be to..
I think the OP is looking for recommendations or suggestions on monetizing his adult site, probably not referrals
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