How to know people good or bad ??

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by ajayto, Nov 12, 2009.

  1. #1
    How to know people good or bad specially on chat or message posting..
     
    ajayto, Nov 12, 2009 IP
  2. 123funda

    123funda Member

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    just spent some time with them in chat, in practical life, if you want to know a person,
    follow these three steps.
    1- see what type of friends he/she have.
    2- travel with her/him

    all the above two methods are to know the person
     
    123funda, Nov 12, 2009 IP
  3. Padalda

    Padalda Banned

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    Just tell the person to switch on his web cam. :D
     
    Padalda, Nov 13, 2009 IP
  4. dairyman

    dairyman Notable Member

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    It is very difficult to identify a good person from the external look alone. It is not that simple to evaluate a person in one go. It takes time and you have to be an experienced person to be a good evaluator.
     
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  5. Nintendo

    Nintendo ♬ King of da Wackos ♬

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    You can't. Now, here's my a/s/l and what I REALLY look like...

    [​IMG]

    :D:D:D
     
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  6. Partizan

    Partizan Peon

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    Only talk with them and you will know who is who)))
     
    Partizan, Nov 13, 2009 IP
  7. Punto

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    I don't know what kind of person I am, but I love that picture of my fat jerkus.
     
    Punto, Nov 13, 2009 IP
  8. Umesh281

    Umesh281 Peon

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    I guess the best way to know about a person online is - getting into some deal, if he/she does your work on time and provide you with same what he/she offered and do not run away after taking your money - you can consider him/her as a good person.. ;):rolleyes: .. would like to add more - next time try to stop the payment and notice the reactions - it would help a lot to make a decisions if the person is good or not ?? :D:D
     
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  9. webmaster.pt

    webmaster.pt Greenhorn

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    Nintendo, you need a diet... ! :) Just be happy you're not him...

    Sometimes, you can research someone. You can always ask questions. And when you're good at "knowing" people, you will know what to ask. Just look for contradictions. Things that don't add up.

    But, you have to give away a few ounces of trust even to a stranger. But, it has to be the right measure of trust. How much should you trust a stranger? It really depends on a lot of different circumstances.
     
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  10. zenoTom

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    #10
    You can never judge.
     
    zenoTom, Dec 3, 2009 IP
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    #11
    Should learn to observe the person's face...:)
     
    akimboblog, Dec 3, 2009 IP
  12. WebCreate&Promote

    WebCreate&Promote Peon

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    I usually judge by the look of a person's eyes. They can be too cold, cowardly, sly, cruel..
     
    WebCreate&Promote, Dec 9, 2009 IP
  13. ISellMyITKnowledge

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    #13
    you will never know.. !! only way is to work/chat with that people and by time you will discover more and more about him/her ! and still be careful what you talkin to online.
     
    ISellMyITKnowledge, Dec 9, 2009 IP
  14. flasheswoman

    flasheswoman Guest

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    #14
    look them in their eyes
     
    flasheswoman, Dec 9, 2009 IP
  15. Misa_Misa

    Misa_Misa Well-Known Member

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    #15
    Hmmm, a good question, indeed. :D
    I think that you can't really get to know a person just by chatting with him. :)
    There are people who introduce themselves as other people than they are. And the person that you are talking to may introduce himself as a sweetheart, and a dear, and a friend, and actually be a maniac, or something.
    Until you meet this person, in person ( sounds funny :p ) and judge his behavior and actions, you really can't trust a person by his/hers chatting. :)

    Hope that helps,
    Misa Misa
     
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  16. sofisticacion

    sofisticacion Well-Known Member

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    at chat is very difficult, screen supports everything, and the only way to know someone is personally, and still you will never end to get to know someone.

    My tip is: always look directly into the eyes, they never fail you.
     
    sofisticacion, Dec 9, 2009 IP
  17. sofisticacion

    sofisticacion Well-Known Member

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    just look at mine, would you say Im a bad person?
    Yes, is me in the avatar :)

    Comments.
     
    sofisticacion, Dec 9, 2009 IP
  18. krolbiz

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    #18
    That's why reputation is important to gain people's trust.
     
    krolbiz, Dec 9, 2009 IP
  19. mukeshgbg

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    I can examine the behaviour the person whom i want to know correctly and perhaps it would help me to know him.
     
    mukeshgbg, Dec 9, 2009 IP