well all of us get this problem one time or other.. post you links on identi.ca, twitter, facebook,, or even bookmark them at digg, delicious,, they will get indexed for sure
there is realy no problem but how about linking to the same page which is linking to you, that will surely help you.
A good start is just to ping them at someplace like pingfarm Another great method is to bookmark them or link from Twitter or Facebook Also you can turn them into an RSS feed and submit them to RSS sites, or use a service like Linklicious, Backlink Indexer, or Backlink Booster Hope that helps!
Try the search in this forum as there are more then a few answers to your question. To start though realize that Google doesn't show all your links, not even close. How many are showing in Yahoo Site Explorer? Are you using SEO for Firefox, has Google cached the page the links are on?
as said by all try BulkPing.com 's new Ping tool with 88 engines and all pinged in real time and even u can schedule Auto Ping for Free http://www.bulkping.com/ping/index.php
In my opinion if you can cheaply get your backlinks URL indexed then it’s very much worth it. not spend a lot of money or time on getting this.
Really up to Google if they are going to index your backlinks or not, but you can always make them available for backlinking. For example, I have a blog network, all on different class-c IPs, 20 sites, using backlink index express. They are all constantly crawled by Google, and my index rate is about 70% compared to 10% before.
bulkping.com the links Create RSS feed (but not with too many links at once) and submit to top RSS directories. You can social bookmark sites as well - I've been using social monkee for 25 fast links a day. It is 100% free and if you sign up a few people you can upgrade to a higher account. My link if you want to use is http://www.specialofferstop.com/socialmonkee - again this is a free service.
You can get your backlinks indexed relatively quickly by using the social bookmarks like Reddit and Digg
I have same problem Google didn't see my backlins. I'm checking with google webmaster tools. For example I've submited article to goarticles.com and articlebin.com 2 weeks ago, and I dont see backlinks from them
You could try other tactics like press releases, they are a little harder to post, but if you get on Google news, your site will definitely be indexed, and will get some traffic too
you can carry on with your work and google will automatically index them. Make sure you have do follow links.
Pinging is the best practice for indexing and it really helps to get indexed fast. continuous updating content also get noticed in eye of google so updating content could get your indexing fast.