Be funny and witty.. Don't talk so loudly just to try to get our attention and do wierd stuff... just be yourself... Attention seekers are definite turn off.
Be what you are. If you try to be someone else then you can't attract anyone. And if they don't like the way you are, they don't deserve you.
Ask her what is main difference between PHP4 and PHP5, if you don't get straight answer she is not girl for you.
either you just dont have "it", you have nothing to offer, you havent done something to make you noticed & stand out, or maybe your just an ugly a hole, who knows.
girls like cute guys that make them smile but the main thing is confidence.... just talk to a girl its not hard! you can more or less read them any way, just look at what they wear and how they act. When you first talk to them you have to be sweet and funny make them feel that your a nice guy even if your intentions are to take them home for a 1 night stand i picked up 5 girls last week and got 9 numbers and took 1 home the chat up line i used was: i seen some hot girl sit down so i went over and i said your in my seat. they said oh sorry. i said no problem is it ok if i join you as i was here first. they said yes =)
Be confident, and funny. Don't be a pussy, don't be an arrogant prick. Don't be insecure and needy, and don't hit chicks . Just have fun with the girls, and if a relationship turns out, great! If not, than oh well, at least you had fun.