How many ppl belive in arrange marriage?

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  1. writer_isme

    writer_isme Peon

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    #61
    Arranged marriages take place in a lot of foreign countries. Maybe the man doesn't feel like he's giving up his whole future, this is their culture, some have learned to accept it.
     
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  2. Fadmin

    Fadmin Banned

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    #62
    I don't support it. It's our own lives, why should anybody tell us who to marry?
     
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  3. Sirrren

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    #63
    It's not for me, but to each his own.
     
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  4. ali-2006

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    #64
    it sux to hear that ,...and especially when the dad arrange his daughter marriage
     
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    #65
    Hello ...... It depends on you how to adjust to the unknown person. Dont Underestimate the arranged marriage. When you can't change the world try to change yourself for the world.
     
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  6. Honey1

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    #66
    Hi

    I believe in arrange marriage. Becoz If you are adjustable person then your marriage should be successful forever. But if you can’t then whether it is arrange or it is love not success. So its depend on us and most of people are very well known about our self that what should I adjust and what are not.
    I have experience because I was also fall in love with someone but he was cheated me and that moment was very painful for me so i didn't like . But In my family my mom, dad and my brother, sister-in-law they all are very happy about their marriage and they loved each other very much. :) :) :)
     
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    #67
    If u ask this question to Indians ........u will not get surprised anymore... Hey its depends on the family n relegion. but its in India arrenge marriage is more successfull than love marriage
     
    samkeating, Dec 3, 2008 IP
  8. puti1

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    #68
    Hi braveman,
    i am very happy that you are enjoying your marriage...I wish you more happy years to come :)
     
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    #69
    I believe in falling in love
     
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    #70
    i don't wanna marry at all.....
    i makes me a prisoner.
     
    cupid007, Dec 4, 2008 IP
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    #71
    married for 6 years. I do not believe in arranged marriages, but hey, to each his own.
     
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  12. Zepxs

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    #72
    In Hindu culture, from what I can see, the relationship of these people are much better compared to those who are not involved in arranged marriage.
     
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  13. mahendra rajeshirke

    mahendra rajeshirke Active Member

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    #73
    u know live in relationship is allowed by low, by supreme court and now by mumbai high court, so it is legitimate
     
    mahendra rajeshirke, Dec 4, 2008 IP
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    #74
    Thats because if they try and leave, the groom gathers up the uncles and they put her under the patio...

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/6722699.stm

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...lling-teenager-arrested-suspicion-murder.html

    http://www.independent.co.uk/news/w...weapon-to-subjugate-women-in-iraq-816649.html
     
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    #75
    I don't believe there is real love in arranged marriages.
     
    john14789, Dec 4, 2008 IP
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    #76
    Sure there is. Some guys just love having a slave :D
     
    Vic_mackey, Dec 4, 2008 IP
  17. kittyluver

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    #77
    Most of the arranged marriages are more successful in India than love marriages. I think arranged marriage is far better than the other.
     
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    #78
    LOL yes very true!
     
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  19. profitdollar

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    #79
    I broke up with my ex-gf because her parents want her to marry her newphew... They arranged her marriage and last march, they got married!

    I really hate them because of the arrange marriage.... :mad:

    I wanna see if their marriage will last forever and live "happily ever after" :rolleyes:

    p.s - However, I pray for her happiness with that guy.
     
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  20. mahendra rajeshirke

    mahendra rajeshirke Active Member

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    #80
    u know that doesnt matter which marriage u choose , its depend on each culture, and community, we cant stay with world , so indian r very Conscious abt their partner and family, because family is strenth of human and it drives culture ahead, and i pround to be an indian, bcoz everyone can understand everyone,.
     
    mahendra rajeshirke, Dec 4, 2008 IP