I believe many of us here are already a father or going to be a father soon. How it feel to be a father soon? Or should I say, how you felt when you become a father for that first time? Can anyone share an experience with me, when you became a father for the first time your giving birth of a lovely child? 1. What were you thinking when your first child coming less than a month? 2. What will you be prepare for the labour time with your wife? 3. After the very moment, when your first child came to this world, how you felt? Whats your reaction when you first hold your baby? 4. Did you give your baby a name before or after your wife giving birth? 5. Since you are webmaster(if), would you asked or guide your baby to follow up your career as a webmaster? For this very moment, these are some queries which I had in mind, cos I will be a father soon for the very first time, next month or soon. Things seems to be not as I expected in terms of cash and mind thinking. Was actually thought or think "Well, I am happy of cos, its normal" this word was 3 months ago, but when it is getting near, I seem to be a bit lost of myself. To all going-to-be a father, congratulation and wish you all the best.
Just take the time to thoroughly enjoy everything. It can be hectic and you can feel overwhelmed and even angry with your wife (they can get ferocious). Don't let this interfere with the experience as you will look back at this time years from now and wish you had it back. Lots of "yes, dear" gets you a long way. AND ALWAYS Remember: Do you want to be right, or happy? Congrats.
Just know that you need to be extra nice to your wife/gf during the last couple months/days of the pregnancy. They can become very needy and demanding. I remember having a lot of things run through my mind when my wife and I were going to have a baby (unexpectedly). All I know is that it is natural to be "scared" or having feelings of not really knowing how to raise a kid. But everything falls into place and everything works out. Everything works out unexpectedly and unplanned.
Ohh.....it is a wonderful feeling..... You suddenly feel a lot more responsible to everything....In the past, you have always been nurtured and protected but once you become a father, you suddenly find yourself protecting someone and nurturing the same!!! This transition really evokes mixed feeling among different people.... It definitely made me a lot more sincere.... Regards, RightMan
Worry about this thing, just now, my wife mentioned about having some pain like period on the bottom part, correct if I'm wrong, there's no way that I'm going to be father this week right? Any mommy here have experience about this? EDD is 14~16th Dec 2008, its too early from the EDD. Will be taking my wife to see the doctor tomorrow, since now is 12am here in Malaysia. Any experienced mommy can help me out?