yeah, umm, im not really comfortable giving people I dont know my login and password, is it possbile to just post the instructions
There is not automated way to do that. It is grunt work. There is no simple solution. An experienced programmer can avoid newbie mistakes. Q...
you first install the PHPBB in a directory. most sites use a folder /forums on their public_html root and even point it to a subdomain forums.domain.com. the rest of the work is done via forums/styles folder where you have the different PHPBB templates. backup that folder or create a new one for your new template because you're going to be tearing your hair out trying to get it to look just right. CSS and HTML is a helpful, but you're probably going to need someone to make it look seamless with your site and menu structure because it can be a lot of work.