How do you feel ?

How do you feel and what do you do when someone cheats you ?

 

It depends on who is cheating me, and cheating me in what. Do you mean cheating as in scamming, or cheating as in lying or cheating as in ...

 

Really depends as said above.

Cheated by somebody as in a scam, I feed them to my lawyer. She's destroyed a few scammers' lives so far (4 to be exact). She costs me a huge amount of money, but damn she's good at what she does. She's even forced one scammer into bankruptcy...that was beautiful.


Cheated by somebody in a relationship...depends on the person and situation. I can't honestly say that I've been 100% faithful in all of my past relationships, so it would be hippocritical for me to go postal on somebody that I was dating. The first girl that I was in love with cheated on me, and that was really harsh and unpleasant.

My wife on the other hand, I never have and never intend to cheat on her and she has the same feelings. Even if our feelings towards each other do change one day, we have a daughter that doesn't need to get caught in the crossfire so it would be handled very delicately.


And then there's stupid cheating, like when playing a game or something dumb (aka "little white lies"). Frankly everybody does it and I'm not really concerned about it. I'm a marketer, and in the words of the best marketing book ever written (as well as Dr. House) - "everybody lies". Don't sweat the small stuff, sometimes people lie for a good reason and it's usually not important enough to worry about.

 

actually , cheating in result .

for example , loosing a competition due to clear cheating in result .

 

I never got cheated in big margin.Some people cheated me for very little amount and I forgave them.

 

hi,
it is a bad habit .it is not ok . but some time it will depend what is cheating with me next person?

thanks.

 

I have been cheated before in my life not here in DP .
I feel cheated.. thats all so the as in DP.. reps goes down, iTrade goes down, trust goes down..
Thats all I can do...., I have to live with it.

 

I feel bad when someone cheats me. What I will do will depend on the situation. But we should try to take it in a positive way and make it a point to be more cautious the next time around.

 

I get pretty angry, to be honest, but I usually win!

 

Chating in love = depressed disapointed + wanna kick somebody ass
cheated by a friend with money = disapointed
cheated by a "customer" = angry and wanna kick somebody ass

 

You win means the cheater says sorry to you and compensates?

 

Cheating has some effects on medepends on each situation...I get angry, disappointed, hurt, frustrated and feeling I couldn't trust anybody never ever

 

Got angry, cool down, think what to do, remember who’s done it, go on..

 

Angry! Sad! Makes Me Cry