Yup, make yourself busy. Go out with your friends. I think part of the difficulty of ending a relationship is you just don't have the companionship of someone else anymore. If you're alone at the computer, it's probably difficult to stop thinking about her but if you're with a friend, there's gonna be a moment where you just forget about everything. As time passes, you'll stop thinking of her more and more.
That's hilarious but I know how you feel. I have a couple of friends in that position right now, too, haha. Make lots of money.
go to a pub or a disco bar... drink with a hot chick! ask her for a date.. lolz BTW, on scott's situation, don't waste your time being forsaken by your girl or should i say ex-girl. there are lots of girls out there. of course the pain is still there, but if you can't get your head out of that situation that's a big problem. i suggest you read some books, enjoy your life, and make your self busy. things just happen and that will become a part of your life. learn from it and move on. Love yourself
Scott... get over it already... plenty of women out there... just think of it as a learning experience. Go out with a bunch of guy friends and have a good time. Go bungee jumping!!!! That will keep your mind off of her. It's her lost.
its always not easy to forget.... think of it over and over until you get sick and tired of thinking. you'll soon realize that your life is not worth wasting....
SB has the answer right there. I remember this great commercial where this guy was sitting around moping and saying "My girlfriend just left me. She left me with nothing. ... Nothing but my jet ski... and this cooler of beer... and ... I'm going to call my buddies!" As Friedrich Nietzsche said "Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent."
i know that moving on is easier to said than done... my advice for you is go out with you friends and have fun! remember the happiest moments when you were single... im sure you have lots of them! for me all the love that you gave her will be useless if you dont get love back at you... it would be nice to meet new people but dont be in a rush to look for a new one... just enjoy being with friends and enjoy the moment and im sure you'll be just fine!
Wow thanks for all the reply's everyone I've been out with my friends which is why I'm late on replying lol, but yea being out with them does clear my head some. I've also come up with an idea about all my bad past experiences, I can't share much about it but hopefully it will make a difference and help others who go through the same things I have gone through in the past. Thanks for all the kind words
Very sad story... You're not the one experiencing this very bad experience. Girls always do this to us.I mean leaving without any reason.. But what I found out,some of their reason is they want some space to think over what they really feel about us.Girls are the best gift that the world can offer.But they are also our worst nightmare when they do this things.Try to talk to some girls you like also.And try to get some inspiration from them.Though its not the same inspiration you get from your girl but it really helps a little to get you going. Girls need some time.Give it to her.If she comeback then she's yours.Try to be a better guy while youre waiting for her.Besides if she didn't comeback you dont lose any effort to help yourself.It's like hitting two birds in one stone. Yours Truly, Dr.Khasmoth L.D. Love Doctor LOL
Desperate to get one..LOL Close your eyes and hold your ***** Move it up and down while thinking of the hot chick you've met. I hope that will solve your problem.
Actually if she comes back tell her to take a hike as she has missed that boat, you would be a mug if you played her game. Serious though, being single is probably the best thing as you have nobody to answer to but yourself which gives you more time to better yourself at work. There is plenty of time in the future to get bogged down into a relationship and attach the ball & chain, just live your life before doing so. Good Luck Scott.
Masturbation! Good advise Khasmoth! But very bad expression on public forums! Use PM facility for this!