I have tried the basic things..... But when considering link exchanges i found out that reciprocal links are not useful. So how can i get one way links or how can i get high value one way links?? Also, is it true that it is useless getting links from sites not relevant to my blog? I have these many links from my page and i have many more to my blog.... CLICK HERE
Try submitting to relevances directories and use social bookmark networks like digg, stumbleupon and etc.
If you did link exchanges with non relevant sites, do you think that it will benefit both of you in terms of traffic ? No, because visitors looking for a niche blog are more likely to click links that deal with the same subject. One way- link bait, natural content, or simply buy them.