If you have some money to spend....... submit your site to the directories listed here at http://www.avivadirectory.com/strongest-directories/ if you don't,then you can submit your site to all the directories listed at http://www.addurl.nu/
You could always bid to the front page of other bid directories' In this , i commend mine http://www.socialise.info
Promotion costs money... You will need to spend a fair amount to even start to get noticed. Find directories you like and... Check their PR (homepage and inner)... Sites that have been doing promotion will have inner PR (unless its very new and not showing PR yet) Check indexed pages in Google (They tend to index fairly quickly. Check backlinks in Yahoo... Yahoo shows far more backlinks that Google and will give you a better indication. Check directory whois to determine the age of the site... If its just been registered you might want to wait to see what the owner will do with it. If its been registered for a long while PR distribution should be good... if not, the site may have been used for some other purpose and will likely lose a lot of backlinks. But ya know... its all a matter of opinion anyway
since you have a bidding directory, i suggest these two lists in addition to the aviva strong directory list posted above! http://phplinkbid.com/en/sites http://www.ventedoy.com/strongest-list/ cheers!
submit to my bidding directories. If you give me a back link, I will add your site @ $3.00 Sharp Directory - Bid for Position Ranking King - Bidding Directory Mr Linking - Bid Directory Big Bidding Bid For Level
Very nice template you have there. you have made a good start with a custom theme and brandable domain. To focus on targetted traffic, you need to to bid high on other bidding directories. www.ventedoy.com/strongest-list/ there are good bid directories there, and also 3 in my sig
You're doing it already Posting on forums with your target market is a great way to get the traffic you need to your website! Goodluck!