how can i get my own spoder for my site to check for recip links, is there some software that you can use.
http://j-spider.sourceforge.net/ http://weblech.sourceforge.net/ http://arachnid.sourceforge.net/ http://wherespider.sourceforge.net/ Where those what you were looking for?
Maybe http://www.urltrends.com and site:yourdomain.com and link:yourdomain.com (type those in google)