Hi, i have just started a website www.echatnetwork.com and im wanting to know how to build links to it,and best places to go,or can anyone offer me good links,or maybe banner exchange, its an adult site, please email me sutton29804@aol.com
Well you can do a number of things to promote your website. Try using the free traffic system and the dofollow blog finder listed in my links bellow.
Can people look in the forum to find out that there are million similar posts like this one? "Hi, I'm new, help me build links, k thx!" Cut the crap man.
you can do many stuff but i would suggest you to approach Google. and search "do follow" and your niche, you will find forum where you can post in order to receive links.
It's not very easy to get backlinks (specially anchored backlinks) for adult sites. You might want to build a network of 'clean' sites around your adult sites and get people to link to those. Try blog commenting, most webmasters would approve comment by looking at your anchor text (no keyword spam) and quality of comment. You can find dofollow blogs with many search engines, you can find a list of dofollow search engines here: http://directoryblogger.com/are-you-tired-of-looking-for-dofollow-blogs/
There is no point of asking someone to email you mentioning about "how to build backlinks". It is ridiculous. Do you think that there are people who are willing to do that? There are lot of ways to build backlinks. Just go around the forum and see what you can grab out of it. There are lot of resources available for newbie like you to use. Try to get the maximum out of it rather than wasting your time by asking someone to email you those things. Do not wait until some person is get in to you and teach "how to build backlinks" because you might be too late. There is a high competition. It is easy to become the looser rather than being the winner.
you can start submitting your website to web directories, then exchanging links to relevant sites, actually, there are lots of ways to get good back links...