hey guys i want to customize wordpress to keep in my own site do u have any idea how do i start i am getting really confussed
Go into your admin panel and click on the design tab at top. Under that there should be a theme editor link. Go in there and start customizing away!
Sure, ftp to: wordpress-directory/wp-content/themes/theme-you-wish-to-use Those files correspond with your layout and if you want to use dreamweaver, use those files.
thanks but i really didn't understand i will my site live in some day can u put my link in your css charm i have seen it its very beautiful
If you want to learn the basics of creating or modifying a wp theme then check http://www.wpdesigner.com/2007/02/19/so-you-want-to-create-wordpress-themes-huh/ It wont teach you fancy tricks though but its a start.
You can submit your site to CSS Charm when it's ready via the link in my footer. If you need anymore help, please PM me.