Thanks for your intrest, but since I have no more the same problem, i hope this thread will help other people with the suggestions you give me. @Tasadduqkhan - the apology really helps. @PlanetAndrea - I did that first days - but you know - it's a lot different if you have man helping here @ottodo - that won't work - there are some people wich can ave absolute control at their desires and behavior. Tometo is one of that - he can do anything he decide it's worthed to do. and the only problem is that he is most patience and persistant man I know. He is capable to stand at his positons no matter what happen, and wait for the result he want's. Thet's one of the reasons i maiired him.
I don't think I would ever withhold sex from my wife. It is supposed to be this great thing we share. not a tool to punish. If it is used to punish then it loses what it is truly meant to be later.
I am single till now and I could not say any thing right at the moment. For me I don't have any kind of sexual experience. So it is hard to say any thing now.