Both,keep relationship with both of them,who knows what will come next.May be one of them dislike you in the future.In that case you still have one left. Good luck.Mate.
You can't choose amongst the two that late, its gonna be more painful for the unchosen one... Imagine the pain you would give her.. Choose while it's still early for them to relinquish the pain... Though it would be really hard to choose, you just can't keep two relationships at the same time and in the latter part of the story, someone between the two is really going to get hurt. Women aren't reserves. Cheers! hic!
Hahha! the answers here are very funny. You already said that you CAN'T ask them both. Maybe you have an idea WHY. And for that, I think you're smart but not smart enough to know which one. That's okey. It happens to all of us, though not in that same situation. Hmmm. I would go for No. 1. Why? Well, for one, it wouldn't be a boring date. You would have a lot to talk about for those times she was absent - what was going on with her, what happened to her life and career, and to you also...then maybe you could start a love story from there. they say the best kind of love are those founded on friendship. No.2...well, you've known each other for 3 years, you're even close you said, what's there need to talk about that you would be too excited about that you can't with long lost friend No. 1? I don't know. You like them both so they're equal in that aspect. But I guess it's more of choosing the one that gives the more "thrill" and challenge. Don't men like challenge?...
why not be with the one whom you are happy to be with regardless of the fact if she likes you or not... dont try to play games with yourself...
Agreed. But there is no harm in going out with both lol. Although i have fallen into a mess b4 coz of this.
Is it not obvious? i've known her for 3 years, we're close That for a start is great. -it's very much obvious that she likes me, heck, she's even the one who's asking me out for a date LOL That kind of thing is not easy to find so do not lose this chance. -caring...very, and she shows it to everybody What more could you want? -we have some similarities, but we tend to argue sometimes Only those who care for you will bother to argue a point with you. So go get her right now and do not let her go.
Tell them you're out of money - bankrupt. The girl who stay by is the one to choose. If none does, they're not worth you. (If both do, PM me and I'll take one of em :-p_
Rocksta - Nice idea, let me try that, hmm. mytechiestuff - "Only those who care for you will bother to argue a point with you." I didnt know that, or maybe i am just ignorant or something.. Thanks to everyone for the advice