Help me please! Can't choose.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Jeoru, Apr 22, 2008.

  1. #1
    Need serious help here. So there are 2 girls that I like, and fortunately (or unfortunately?) both of them like me too. Now I dunno whom to ask out for a date. I obviously can't ask them both!

    The facts

    Girl1
    -a friend of mine since before, but we only saw each other again last month (in an event)
    -we have a lot of similarities: interests, etc.
    -prettier than girl 2 :eek:
    -has obviously known me for a longer time than girl 2
    -i am not that sure if she still likes me that much

    Girl2
    -i've known her for 3 years, we're close
    -it's very much obvious that she likes me, heck, she's even the one who's asking me out for a date LOL
    -caring...very, and she shows it to everybody
    -we have some similarities, but we tend to argue sometimes

    So... which one??? :eek:
     
    Jeoru, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  2. Kerosene

    Kerosene Alpha & Omega™ Staff

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    #2
    Asking for relationship advice on a webmaster forum is asking for trouble :p

    Take the ugly one. Ugly girls put out more.
     
    Kerosene, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  3. skywalkerph

    skywalkerph Well-Known Member

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    #3
    if i were you, i would be choose for girl2. which is i known for 3 years.
    I dont want to waste my time for girl1, i only known her in a short, i dont have any guarantee that she likes me.
     
    skywalkerph, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  4. sheilasultani

    sheilasultani Peon

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    #4
    Why can't you go out with both of them? You aren't in a serious relationship. Or, you can try going out as friends (which you already are) and see if it grows into something else. Do the girls know each other? If you aren't jumping back and forth from one bed to the other then I don't see why you can't go out with both. It seems to me that after knowing both of them for a while you would know who you want to be around the most.
     
    sheilasultani, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  5. zurk

    zurk Banned

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    #5
    It entirely depends on your feelings...
    I, myself, is having problems slightly similar with yours. Take time, see who weighs more than the other. Avoid making a mistake, it doesn't matter who knows you better who brags about what they feel about you. :)

    Hope it helps, don't wanna see you cry like I did for making a bad move...
     
    zurk, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  6. arjun316

    arjun316 Active Member

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    #6
    both
    thats the best choice
     
    arjun316, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  7. jimmius

    jimmius Peon

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    #7
    Why don't you try chose one; from time to time..? ;)
     
    jimmius, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  8. twistedspikes

    twistedspikes Notable Member

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    #8
    If you want my advice then go for number 2.

    But then again, if your that close to her then if something goes wrong your friendship is at stake as well.

    My advice is usually poor. Hence why i'm single.
     
    twistedspikes, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  9. jimmius

    jimmius Peon

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    #9
    Totally disagreed. You are single, because you want to be free ;)
     
    jimmius, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  10. EGS

    EGS Notable Member

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    #10
    Pick both and then decide on the one that is "easier" for you to mate with. ;)
     
    EGS, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  11. jimmius

    jimmius Peon

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    #11
    What do you mean by "easier" ?
     
    jimmius, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  12. bangalore

    bangalore Peon

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    #12
    Go with first, first, and then try with second. But if they catch you, most probably, both are gone.
     
    bangalore, Apr 22, 2008 IP
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    nick2007 Well-Known Member

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    #13
    hehe. My advice to you. Be with each of the both, first week with 1st girl second week with 2nd girl.
    It's a joke, mate.
     
    nick2007, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  14. jimmius

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    #14
    If both they are gone, then they had never worth the time.
     
    jimmius, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  15. gauravgrt

    gauravgrt Peon

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    #15
    You must close your eyes and ask your deep mind you will surely get the answer, if still you don't get the answer then i would suggest you to toss a coin :D
     
    gauravgrt, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  16. twistedspikes

    twistedspikes Notable Member

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    #16
    lol thats right...:rolleyes:

    More like I'm just way too shy to be able to meet anyone new.
     
    twistedspikes, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  17. Boardwalk

    Boardwalk Well-Known Member

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    #17
    I'd choose girl 1. :D You have similar interests, she's pretty and all... xD
     
    Boardwalk, Apr 22, 2008 IP
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    w3bmaster Notable Member

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    #18
    Your hart knows the answer ....
     
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  19. Boardwalk

    Boardwalk Well-Known Member

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    #19
    I think the guy's asking here 'cause his "hart" doesn't know the answer. :p:eek:
     
    Boardwalk, Apr 22, 2008 IP
  20. coderbari

    coderbari Well-Known Member

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    #20
    If I were I would like to choose both of them ;)
    Where there is a opportunity,you should grab it :D
     
    coderbari, Apr 22, 2008 IP