since techie007 has already expounded on your possible course of actions and their possible outcomes, i guess that leaves me with just this quote from Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot -D.H. Lawrence
Listen to everyone, take all major opinions from experts, friends. And make decision on your own! My suggestions is : Whichever decision you select, and whatever is a result don’t regret! Just keep in mind “Anything happens is in best interest of your life†Wish you luck buddy!
I don't agree with you and people who are saying to tell her at once that you have such feelings for her.It will surely be a shock for her, as she takes you as a brother. Agreed with this! a gradual approach will help you solving this problem. Just try to show her in a way (whatever you think is suitable but don't be over emotional, as boys go emotional in such cases) that you like her. It is not upto you how you make her realize that you have feelings about her. Best of luck mate
It is totally depends on you.u can take decision on the bases of your relation with your friend.see if u have good relation with your frnd and u both have good understanding than just clear your salves with her and tell her about your feelings with her sis. Just tell her that u fall in love with her sis and want to merry with her.and if she is not ready than i will forget her but our friendship will remain same.i dont want to lose u as a good friend. see every coin has two sides just think positively if she will happy with your decision than she will ask her sis on behalf of u. dear all the best and i hope u will get succeed in this matter. but never hurt any one. write here what u have done. take care -jigs
Ask her if she thinks sleeping with family members is wrong, if she says yes then you should probably forget about it.
seojig, your idea is nice... i thought about that, but i feel that its a little risky... i cant exactly say why, but many of my friends have discouraged the idea of asking someone to help for love by asking them speak to the significant other. it could make things more complicated... i need to start worry about feeling and reactions of one more person! i decided to take the gradual approach to avoid shocks as some members advised me....
tradeepak, you have taken good decision and make sure your friend does not have any soft corner for you.. and don't try to give her undue importance just to get close to her sister.. as there are chances that your friend starts feeling for you.. just thought i should tell you ... anyway, see if you really love her.. then there will be ways for you.. but slow and gradual approach would be best for you... take time to understand her and give her gap to understand you..
My GOD! I never thought about that... You are a little RIGHT... I guess my friend has some feelings for me.. This may be a barrier. Did you know... even a rock will erode as the ants crawl.. So with time and patience every will be set all right! Will keep you people updated
Not yet. Today I met her.. had a talk.. some smiles etc.. But still she called me 'Anna' which means bro in my language. I did not do anything else.. just said bye.
ohh this is very sad. can tell me her age, i mean appx age of your frnd's sis. see if u dont like that she called u "anna" than it can easily expressed on your face and i think that see can easily feel that as u dont like that. just try to express your feeling that u dont like as she called u "anna" and see what happen. all d very best take care -jigs
Come on, what matters if she calls u brother (Anna), it is not easy to dwell a brother and sister relation by just calling.. anyways, i have an another idea for u..used very often, but i think it will work 4 u.. just tell her that you want to share something very intimate.. then when u get time tell her about your dream girl, i mean all the features that you desire in ur futuremate. Make sure that all the qualities reflect to her but no direct pointing.. So, she would get a 10% hint. Now, see her reaction... just let me know.. i will guide u further