I have two little girls, one is 4 years old and the other one only 5 months old. I've done a lot of crap in my day but having kids is about the smartest decision I've ever made. Kids are cool
I don't want children at this time in my life. I have no opinion on other people who have children unless they can't afford them and refuse to adopt them out.
If everybody thinks that having a baby would be annoying, imagine what would happen to the whole population on the planet? Having a baby is actually a mixture of excitement, happiness and annoyance. Be mentally prepared before planning to have a baby so that you can avoid the annoyance later. Babies are unique in their own and you can enjoy the real happiness of having a baby if you had experienced that annoyance earlier.
It is completely exciting thing having a baby, can you feel how unfertilized couple craving for a baby ?!
Got a 4 year old & a not quite 1 day old , absolutely love being a dad ( whether I'll still say that when i've got teenagers I've got no idea ) .
its great to have kids. think about this u will find ur self dont ever think about the trouble u might have (annoying crying.financial.school) but think their love.warm family,u struggle to raise ur own son,u have goals in life,laugh with them take emotional things first,return to simplest life without its complication,then plan from thier to get the life u want
wow. finality yea i agree. lately i've been thinking it's soon time to have one. i see pics of babies on tele and something in me ..well maybe its the bio clock talking. I am 25..soon enough i'll be 30..(not that age stops us women anymore) perhaps its loneliness.. i dunno. right now in my life i am not ready. and there is so many things i want to do in life before i have kids. like travel the world.. its so weird..i'd always decided that kids weren't for me..even though i studied early childcare studies in senior highschool ,even worked as a teacher aide. Kids and child development fascinate me. Maybe its becuase i've had a little sis 10 yrs my junior and she can be as equally annoying as she can be loving..and now she is a teenager its getting worse. and i think..wtf am i thinking wanting kids?!?! LOL
in my opinion first of all if u want to have kids,think first of the mother, most of u think of sex untill u reach 45 even 50 then start to raise family, bythen u all lose ur energy to keep it up and find ur self exhausted and then family broken and lost all fun instead start early to look for the one who will share eternity with,not have sex with,sex will never last all u know that,instead moments of love,laugh,sharing,caring is last for ever,try it by ur self
I have 3 kids. It is the best thing that ever happened to me. Just like anything else, if it were easy it wouldn't be so rewarding.