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having a baby: is it exciting or annoying?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by st_hart, Jul 4, 2008.

  1. #1
    as a single, maybe it's still a long time before i have kids. so, pls share your experiences or at least your opinion :)
     
    st_hart, Jul 4, 2008 IP
  2. izlik

    izlik Well-Known Member

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    i share the expirence with others children and i dont want own! :(
     
    izlik, Jul 4, 2008 IP
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    #3
    I have a daughter who is 4 years old.
    I love her so much and she acts out, but I rarely get annoyed with her.
    I'm just too happy having her for a daughter to mind the tantrums or the crying when it happens.

    I've noticed other parents are different though.
    I see lots of parents getting really pissed off at their kids for their disobedience.

    I believe to be a good parent, you need to separate emotion from discipline.
    I think too many parents discipline their children in the midst of their anger and frustration.
    I don't feel that's true discipline. I think it is more for the parent's benefit of releasing their anger, than it is for the child's benefit of learning right from wrong.
     
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    #4
    exciting if ours, annyoing if others. :D
     
    gauravgrt, Jul 4, 2008 IP
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    Digital_Designer Banned

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    Very Funny :D
     
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    #6
    i like the kids, i like their laugh and their smell.. make me happy :)
     
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    flawebworks Tech Services

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    It's both.

    When they're that young, they don't know any better. But as they get older....

    My son knows when I get mad - I let him know it. There's nothing wrong in a kid seeing you get mad. It's ok for him to get mad at me too. I rarely stay mad for more than a couple of minutes. When I do get *that* mad, I send him to his room and I go to mine. And believe me, it does happen now and then.
     
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    Don't have any but my older sister does and they are cool until you want some sleep and they will keep everyone awake all night long.
     
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    mimm Banned

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    #9
    I like your post.
    Yes I totally agree with you.
     
    mimm, Jul 4, 2008 IP
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    having a baby is a very exciting part of my life. i have 9months old baby daughter, and i feel that having a baby is completed my life, because, You can change your wife, but you can change your baby no matter what happen.
     
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    It's the greatest moment in the world.
     
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    #12
    I like my lil cousins.. never had a baby.
     
    TheVccMatey, Jul 4, 2008 IP
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    I would assume that it would be exciting at first when everything is fresh and new... then as the redundancy & challenges of taking care of the baby piles up, it will turn into annoyance :p Just a guess!
     
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    #14
    Annoying for me ....


    Crying, crying, all night long.
    And these are small problems.
    I know it from neighbours.

    When the baby/child is getting older.
    Your problems are also getting harder.

    (sex, drugs, fighting, .......)

    So ...

    Small childs, small problems
    bigger kids, bigger problems

    :D


    And I will not be suprised that you get less love
    from your wife. Because the most important thing next, is her kid.

    A women prefers first to quit with her husband
    than instead her kid.


    I've seen these situations to much !!

    If you know a women, that thinks otherwise
    and gives the most love on her husband, instead of her kid,
    let her contact me. (I'm 31 years old) hehehe :D





    Sorry !!

    Jason :p:p
     
    JasonJan1, Jul 4, 2008 IP
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    dcristo Illustrious Member

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    #15
    If the thought of having a baby is annoying, best not having one :rolleyes:
     
    dcristo, Jul 4, 2008 IP
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    hahaha lol :D

    Great answer m8 :p
     
    JasonJan1, Jul 4, 2008 IP
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    #17
    Its both exciting and annoying. Exciting because you spend a lot of good time with the kids and they really make you happy and give you true love. Annoying because they sometimes don't listen to you and give you trouble. :D
     
    web_hunk, Jul 5, 2008 IP
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    #18
    at first it should be exciting but in the long run it might turn out to be a headache lol.
     
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    My father disowned one of my brothers at the age of 16... drug addiction, suicide attempts, heart attack (and at such a young age :() oh, you don't even want to know. The story is so gruesome. :)
     
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    dcristo Illustrious Member

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    And that is funny why?
     
    dcristo, Jul 5, 2008 IP