How could you ever feel cheated? Anything he gives us we never deserved in the first place. Not only that, but he gave us the best gift of all when he died on the cross. If you don't know this, you aren't a christian. On the other hand, I think it is human nature when you go through struggles to wonder where or why God allowed those things to happen. Christians do not believe that just because we are christians we won't have problems.