Sorry to hear that. All I can say is: in time things will be easier to deal with, once you get thru the worst part. Which probably is right now.
Thank you for your support. The thing is shes not just my girlfriend but my best friend. Things have just gone stale. I cant imagine my life without her. Times a great healer
Well I'm 16 and most teenagers I know have thought about it at least once... I know people who have tried. I've thought about it and had my own experiences...
I've noticed somethings from people who have been depressed. I don't know if I've ever been depressed - but I have had massive anxiety at times in my life (warranted) - for instance when my grandmother died. Back to depression. I've noticed that people who are depressed are totally obsessed about themselves. Its all about them and how miserable their life is. They can only think about themselves. Because they are so obsessed about themselves they can't get no relief from their own self torment. Plus depressed people cling to that single painful emotion and believe it is real. Instead of saying "I feel depressed" they say "I am depressed". Its a subtle difference but critical. Feelings come and go that's why if you're feeling depressed you should say I'm feeling depressed because then you can just let it go where as if you say "I am depressed" you're saying depression is a part of who you are. Feelings are impermanent. They only seem permanent when we cling to them.
That may all be true, Hon Daddy but I like what http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/ says about it. That it's the point at which pain exceeds our ability to cope with the pain. I, though my cowardice spiel earlier, will admit I had one point in my life where I seriously contemplated it. Girlfriend of two years, evil evil girl. But staring down the barrel of that loaded shotgun, I realized that it was cowardice. Also I realized, there were so many other fish in the sea. I mean, this is a girl that I got social hell just for dating (not pretty enough for my friends??) yet she was the bitch queen of angmar. I swear. In the end, I broke up with her, and moved on. I found someone else a week later, and we've been together HAPPILY for a year now. HaHa, maybe that only works for the rich and handsome... thoughts?
I have been depressed myself. You just have to grab yourself, keep on doing the things you used to enjoy doing, find other things to do. Just try to concentrate on other things. Hon Daddy Dad so true! A friend of mine used to say he will go and jump off the bridge almost every week for two years. He really did scare us... Now he started writing music and recently signed a deal with some record company. He now says: Thank god i did not do it. Another story: Our relative shot himeslf in the head when he was 16 because of some girl. He survived but lost his vision. It took him under a year to get over it. Now he thinks... WTF was i thinking about? Even though he is blind now i dont think i know a happyer person than him. Another story: My friends buddy from college hung himself the other week. You would not believe how many people his death has affected. His family + friends are absolutely devastated. So if you ever get one of these stupid thoughts, think about all the people who love and care about you. By killing yourself you will kill a part of their heart... forever... If you are clinically depressed you need to get help. Because they can actually help you. Everyone goes through crap times. If its your turn to have it just give it some time, think positive and you will be just fine.
Hookers? Seriously, you should get out of the house and do stuff. ANYTHING to keep your mind off of her.
lolz theres a big world out there think of the advantages and not the DISADVANTAGES . Shit happens get over it
As I've said before - if you are considering suicide - jumping off a bridge: call me when you get to the bottom. Talking in a webmaster forum about this is bullshit. If you suffer from depression go see your doctor and ask them how to get help! For some reason men especially avoid the doctor. If you are depressed - see a doctor, they aren't necessarily going to recommend you take pills but should really refer you to someone who deals with depression as their main gig. Go see your doctor and tell them everything and if they want to give you pills ask lots of questions. Get off your puter and go see a doctor.
BEER will take away your depressed mind..if beer doesnt work for you, all you need is a professional help...
Lol @ Ned. As usual he is busy earning his red reps. I never really get that depressed. I just think ''Someone always has it worse than I do'' and just get on with it. Life is a rollarcoaster, it has it's ups and downs. Without the bad, we wouldn't be grateful for the good. Or erm something.