Has suicide ever crossed your mind?

Why are you here? Do you even have a website? It deosnt make much sense to post on DP if you dont have a website.

 

I don't know, dude. Relationships ending like that can be the worst. There is no easy answer. When my wife left me, I spent 10 hours a day on the old afternic domain name chat - which was where I've learned webmastering by the way. it wasn't the computer that helped me thru it, but the friends I've made on there at a time when I didn't want to face anyone that I know. My advice would be to find something you're interested in. Shit, built some cool sites and become famous or something. Everyone is different, but I think the worst thing you can do is drowning your sorrows or sitting still. You're still alive, so be alive. Do something. Focus your energy and do the things that you were not able to do due to compromises that every relationship has. PM me if you like. I just think you will have to come to a point where you can accept it being over while being able to see good things ahead of you which inspire you. And don't go out there boning random chicks. That shit will make you feel even emptier.

Cheers.

 

Ouch Ned! Maybe I have a website, how do you know I don't?

Now, why don't you trot off and do something constructive with your time.

 

Makes you feel better for a while though. I did that for about a year after I broke up with my ex-girlfriend. After a while, it gets pretty old. Easy chicks are too easy to find.

 

Yeah, about 50 times a day......

But recently I......

 

It's may work for a while when you tell yourself you're still 20 and the past 10 years never happened. Total denial. Took me quite a while though to figure out what I really want, still in the process

 

You mean Go-Go girls, yeah man that worked for me for a good while man, Double Dewar's on the rocks with a slice of lemon, but even at the end of the night driving home at 95 MPH I still thought of those girls that caused me to do it......

Man I am the best drunk driver on the face of the earth too!

Really, I was good, but I was only 31 then, I would not try that at 47

 

What kind of nonsense is that?

 

It deosnt make much sense Michael

 

How do you think about 50 times a day? Do you really live a bad life?
I'm sorry to hear that.

 

Well maybe only 3 times a day, yeah man, life is hard when you get older, I am going to hang on until the pain of life gets worse man

When things get bad I go to this website and click on the video link and watch the video there and I have a reason to keep going man!

http://www.brendanbuckley.com/

 

Thanks everyone for all your supportive comments.

Spoke to her this morning, first time since we split up on sunday and she doesnt even want to speak to me, just wants me out of her life completely.

That hurts so much. After 5 years and she wont even give me the time of day. I havnt even done anything wrong.

 

Without aimless person, always think thats type of stupid opnion.

Be always positive +. Listen good music.

# Smile at a stranger.
# Listen to someone's heart.
# Learn something new, then teach it to someone else.
# Tell someone you are thinking of them.
# Don't be afraid to say "I"m sorry.
# Look beyond the face of a person into their heart.
# Make a promise, and keep it.
# Call someone, for no other reason than to just say "Hi".
# Show kindness to an animal.
# Stand up for what you believe in.
# Smell the rain, feel the breeze, listen to the wind, enjoy the sun.
# Use all your senses to their fullest.

and yeah Do Not Ever Forget, Your Are Special...!!!

 

There was a time that I almost committed it. I was so depressed 5yrs ago, having problem with my family and other stuff. But I'm over with it thank God.
Suicide is not an option an will never be.

 

Suicide is the worst option anyone could ever take.

It may seem like the answer but theres no going back. My friend hung himself last year from a tree near an old farm, he wasnt found for a few days and the whole village was in turmoil from it. He must not have realised how many people cared for him and was there for him.

I still dont know the reasons why he done it but he must have been having problems that he hid away. He seemed like the happiest lad on earth

 

Aw that's sad. Yeah suicide is a cowards way out. It is also a very selfish thing to do, as you aren't just hurting yourself, but many others around you.

However, when you are THAT depressed that you'll commit suicide, I guess you really are thinking of anyone but yourself, and nothing but you need to end your life. I wouldn't wish that feeling on anyone. It must be awful.

That really sucks. It's like how can 5 years of loving someone suddenly be over just like that *clicks fingers* It's such a waste. I don't think I could ever cut someone who i've been with for such a long amount of time like that out of my life completely. Especially if she wasn't just your girlfriend, but your best friend too.

I don't know the ins and outs and reasons why you split up, but give her time man. Hopefully she will realise that Janet Jackson was right - ''You don't know what you've got till it's gone''

If this isn't the case. I know it may feel like the end of the world & that you can never love again. But time is a great healer and you'll get over it someday and meet someone else. Don't cry because it's over...Smile because it happened.

Good luck & keep your chin up, you seem like a really cool guy.

 

A lot of people put up a front. You never know!

 

mdvaldosta got it right

 

Looks lik a nice list of suggestions there Sagbee.

 

I agree with mdvaldosta!!
sometimes i think about it, but i wanna check how it goes on one day more!