can someone suggest how i can get a gradient bar for my menu and sidebars? I don't like the solid color.
use software like fireworks. that has a gradient function. there may also be some free application on the web that will allow you to do the same, or an online image creator. google it lol. failing *all* that smudge white and the colour you want in your usual image software.
I would recommend using either GIMP, which is a free rip-off of Photoshop, or I would use Photoshop. Make a gradient and then cut out a 1px width of one and make it repeat in CSS. If you want I could help. PM me if you are still having problems.