Submitted about 3 months ago, and again about 1 months ago (without really knowing it could actually be bad). I was listed in : http://www.dmoz.org/Computers/Internet/Chat/Video/ Website is FaceFlow That was pretty recently, I just checked the Google cache for the above link which dated from February 18, and my site wasn't there yet. I guess it's a good thing to be listed there, and it seems like it took less time than a lot of people to get listed. Just felt like letting you know
Out of interest, do you know the last time the category was updated before your site was listed? I have submitted to a category that hasn't been updated for 4 years - not holding out much hope for a listing!
There is a technical error that means the dates at the bottom of categories are not changing, so do not beleive the date.