would it be a good idea to request Google to review my site to make sure I'm complying with all the rules? I'm thinking it might be a good idea so that Google doesn't find it and then just disable my account becuase I had been violating TOS. Thoughts?
If you are doing something that you think could be questionable, you should certainly ask google about it. They tend to like specific questions rather than general requests to go through a site to see if it is complying. When people ask this question, they usually have concerns about something specific they are doing.