When I do a search for my blog, make20everyday.blogspot.com , it comes up with all kinds of other stuff except my site. any ideas?
What have you done to promote your site? Google doesn't just 'catch' a lot of sites. You have to put it where they can find it. BTW people usually will take a blog more seriously if it's on a private domain, not a free blogging software.
I searched for "make20everyday", with quotes, and yes it's showing up along with some other thread on DP that you started! The best way to index a blog is to place it as a link in your signature on DP.
you need more back links, and that will be OK. just try to add your site link to more and more website. may be once when google visits your website it was under construction, in case google will visit next time atleast after one month.