My site is still not indexed in google search and my blog site is almost 6 weaks old please do a visit to my site and tell me why i am still awaiting for the indexing.
Google can take anything between a few hours and a few months to index. This ofc can be speeded up, get some decent links pointing at your homepage, and ensure you have submitted your site with a sitemap to google! Why not add your site link to your sig, and sigs on any other forums you visit, that will probably be enough!
i suggest go to the link http://www.google.com/addurl/?continue=/addurl and submit your site to google. Dont wait google to index your site instead tell google to index your site.
You should submit a sitemap for your site through google webmaster tools, and add some high quality backlinks, this will speed up the process.
But Isn't it that you just let bots visit your site? I mean, bots will find you all you and you need to do is build related links to your site like joining to forums and have your site as your signature over there, submit your site to free directories, social bookmarkings will be a good source of backlinks too, but see to it that they are not using no-follow attribute.