Girls Problem

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by james2007, Oct 4, 2010.

  1. #1
    So I recently started dating this girl (2 days ago). She spent the weekend with me. We had a great time. I had a few surprises for her throughout the weekend that included a nice diner, star gazing with candles, and flowers. She loved and thanked me repeatedly. We also had our first kiss this weekend. We had been in a kind of relationship for a little while without it being official.

    Today when I tried texting her she was very unresponsive. When I asked about it and if she wanted to talk about it, she said it was okay and that she was at the library anyway. I said she could call me later if she had some free time. She said she would if I wanted to. I responded saying I always like talking to her and if she wanted to she could call me.

    That was were it was left. Think maybe she is having a bad day (bad day or that time of the month) or do I have a problem here?
     
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  2. Digital_shubhi

    Digital_shubhi Illustrious Member

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    #2
    May be she likes some one else. :eek:
     
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  3. scarletangel

    scarletangel Peon

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    I'm a chiccas so if thats the way you handle it..don't expect too much;) thats an advice^_^
     
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  4. capicua8

    capicua8 Active Member

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    #4
    Maybe its a bad day.

    If she continues to be like this after a couple of days, then drop her. If after all that effort that you put into her she is giving you the cold shoulder that means shes after somebody else.
     
    capicua8, Oct 4, 2010 IP
  5. dyanaangel

    dyanaangel Active Member

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    #5
    May be it will be a bad day for her..
     
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  6. scarletangel

    scarletangel Peon

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    #6
    he said they been in a relationship yet not official..?right?
    if i was the girl...i wouldn't waste my effort and time thinking too much about the guy...coz i know at the end it wouldn't work...
     
    scarletangel, Oct 4, 2010 IP
  7. mdvasanth86

    mdvasanth86 Notable Member

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    @ TS..

    Give her some time and try again...




    wo wo wo... Wazz with the pink font ?? Huh?
     
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  8. ApocalypseXL

    ApocalypseXL Notable Member

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    Dude it's been 2 days . Chill out . She needs her private time just like you need yours . If she likes you it will be alright . Just play it cool .

    Also asking on the Internet it's kind of a bad idea . Ask a friend that's a womanizer . You'll be able to tell him more and he'll give ya more advice if that's what you're looking for .
     
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  9. Koala

    Koala Well-Known Member

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    I have one thing to tell you my friend. never trust women.
     
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    Movie1030 Peon

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    Shes probably banging some other dude as we post
     
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  11. ledbeauty

    ledbeauty Peon

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    #11
    Hey, why never trust women? Don't you trust your girlfriend or wife? I think both parties should be honest and reliable in a relationship, but if you don't trust her, she does can feel it, and I don't think your result will be good.

    As for James, I think you can wait for a couple of days and then call her again. Or you can ask her directly if she likes you or something. That's ok. Just don't be eager about it.
     
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  12. Koala

    Koala Well-Known Member

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    #12
    that's not exactly what I meant, yes, I wouldn't let my girlfriend to control my life, if she feel my whole life depends on her, then she could use it against me someday. but that doesn't mean I don't love her.

     
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    Project Mobius Peon

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    #13
    why don't you go and find her, talk to her and ask her in person instead of posting this here?
     
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    rosn007 Well-Known Member

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    Did you kissed that bad? kidding :) . Just meet her, simple! Thinking is such a waste of time when it comes to girls! Take it easy and kiss well, of course!
     
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    capicua8 Active Member

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    I aggree with koala
     
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  16. love**

    love** Peon

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    #16
    Some Girls are not serious about their
    relationship.She doing time pass with you
    may be and its also possible she loves
    you and you said something to her.Ask
    her and clarify the matter.
     
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    capstonic Well-Known Member

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    #17
    Dont believe in Girls and everyone Cheated. They play with boys hearts.
     
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    scarletangel Peon

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    #18

    mind ur own business..;P
     
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    scarletangel Peon

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    #19

    and so the guyz..XD
     
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  20. scarletangel

    scarletangel Peon

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    #20

    that so quick...?
     
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