ok, why don't you use Divorce 3.5b (Normally do not work in most of the cases). or else try honeymoon 2.0 (Warning!! do not upgrade the old version. Make a clean fresh installation)
lol thats the first time i've heard that it was pretty good. Probably best suited for the entertainment section mind you.
Why don't you do a system restore on Girlfriend 4.0 and don't forget to do a grandmother backup before formatting your partitions.