I've been reading you should really try and gain links from like minded sites as your traffic will be already geared torwards what your sites about... But how do you get your site out there is your site is like MySpace/Friendster/Facebook? other social network sites stay up about as long as a month, and then you get a supended page from there hosting.. My hosting is already paid for; for the next 3 years, and my URL is over 1 year old tho the site is still new.. If you have any ideas please let me know.. I've been only really adding my links to search engines and link directory's and I feel my target audience is being missed..
very hard to compete with myspace, friendster, etc. Maybe you should promote your website with more advertisements...