Hi all, I have been trying to make people take advantage of the forum on my site because it's free, but they still like to pay meetup website for finding friends. why do you think this is happening? http://montrealmommy.com/meetup/YaBB.pl?board=general This is my second attempt to make a forum work, on the previous one I had 80 posts in 6 months period. I got so disappointed that I brought it down.