Finally I'm free

Hah! Poetry hidden in the words that are presented upfront.... beautiful! And... so true.

Remember! Everything in life happens for a reason. That reason may be hidden or unknown at the time, but eventually you will see the truth behind it; the reasoning.

This is just a perfect example of the reason that this happened. You obviously are not meant to spend your life with this one, but another. How can you spend your life with this other one if you are with the trecherous?

Think about it!

 

Very untrue. One day you will look back at this and laugh. You don't think so because you exist as part of it right now. You must break free of this prison you exist in.

 

well, I wish I can but that girl is my love, the last one and I don't think that I can do something else then loving her, I tried to know lot of girls but they just seems to be another girls for me .... something special about her ...
guys I didn't use to believe in emotions, I had a blog talking about how fake is the world and all stuff on it, but now I am so engaged on it ...

 

you're starting to get annoying...you will get over it, might take a few months (maybe years) but it will happen ok?!

 

I am not going this ti happen never, she may be lying to me but I will live in the lie ...well...inside of me ... I wish I can ...

 

Then you are responsible for your own unhappiness, Wissam. That may sound harsh or cruel, but listen to yourself! Go back and read what you have posted. You are pining away for this girl on the internet who -- let's face it --doesn't truly love you.

If she's lying to you, and you KNOW she is lying, then choosing to stay with her and believe the words that fall from her lips is your fault. You are choosing to remain unhappy, and unhappy you shall be until you realize she isn't worth it.

 

But Denise if I face it I will fall, at least now I can wait she may get better and love me for real, I mean she may love me now, I started to recover, I will open my site so soon, college will start after 1 week, I guess I will be to busy to think .. I hope so .....

 

No, if you face it you'll be recognizing the fact that she isn't who you thought she was. You're waiting around in the hopes she'll decide she loves you and come back -- that is, for lack of a better word, STUPID!

If you base your happiness on some woman, then you my friend are going to fall. And that will be your fault. You can't wait around for someone to love you as much as you love them. It's just not realistic.

 

most girls go on myspace to goof around, they don't take it seriously and neither should you wissam

 

Most people on the internet period who get themselves involved in little "relationships" are goofing around -- or clinically insane In any case, don't take it personally. It's not meant to be, obviously.

 

find the easiest chick in town and get laid. It may not make you happy, but u'll feel better

 

in fact I rejected a lot of girls in my age for her for the past 3 years, now in the college I will do just like her, love her online and have fun with another girl in real world, that's the best to do right ?

 

Wissam - there are lots of sayings on this planet about girls/women - whatever

Lots of Fishes...

In Hindi there is a saying:

Ek Bus aur Ek ladki - Ek jaathi hai dusri aathi hai
A Bus (mass transit bus) and a girl - one goes another comes

Moral of the saying - do not chase one

Other languages got anything like this?

 

Wissam, there's no "best" thing to do -- but longing for some internet relationship that probably wouldn't have amounted to anything is definitely the worst.

Don't listen to Blogmaster -- you don't want to find some girl just to get the other one off your mind. That will not make you feel better. What you need to do is start making friends with other girls in real life. Who knows, maybe you'll find one you really like and that really likes you.

 

Yeah. I have seen these before. You are no different than any other of the millions of times this has happened in a relationship. Not the situation per say, but the feelings.

It displeases me to say that being an attention whore doesn't help the situation at all.

 

Nicely put.

 

Please tell me you've actually met this chick in person.

 

He hasn't.

 

So she e-cheated on him?

 

un-e-faithful