So i'm sending emails to google address and they're being blocked by gmail. I need a white listing service. Does anyone know of a website / service I can use?
Try using Transactional Email service, just google it and you will find a lot of providers. Here's one: sendinblue.com
You simply need a sysadmin, I would assume any servers management firm can help you to fix our mail IP issue on your servers. If you don't find anyone, you can even contact me via PM and I'll be able to provide you support from a sysadmin or myself.
You should try another. If you have experienced with SMTP, you can try Amazon SES. It's one of the best SMTP service we found and we're using also. (sendgrid also, but not as good as Amazon SES) Amazon SES works perfect with our iMarketing Center app too
If you need help I have experience in Amazon SES and setting it. I sent marketing email using Amazon SES and avoiding that gmail spam them.
I sent secure email using amazon SES You can even contact me via PM and I'll be able to provide you support from myself.
Well, if you're sending SPAM or bulk emails, you'll be blocked, that's true. If you're sending legitimate emails and still getting troubles, you may have to check if your hosting / VPS / server IP is already in a blacklist with common anti-spam services. Ask your provider for support.