In another thread, I'm not sure which, "Janet" has admitted that she, in fact, clicked on her own ads, believing that because she right-clicked the ad to open it in another window that it didn't count as her clicking on her own ads. So in conclusion: the clicks she is wondering about are her own invalid clicks, which is why they aren't showing. Case closed.
For anyone who has been following my adsense saga, all is well. I emailed google and explained to them what happened, here is part of the response I received. ************* Thank you for your response. We appreciate your concern regarding invalid clicks. Please rest assured that your account currently remains in good standing and we look forward to your continued participation in AdSense. ********* Thanks for suggesting that I contact google.