DP parents: Is it alright to bath with your preschooler?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by KGL, Jul 28, 2007.

  1. #1
    Every once in a while when I give my sons ( 34 months and 16 months) a bath I'll hop in with them, lately my wife has had a problem with it.

    What is your take on it?
     
    KGL, Jul 28, 2007 IP
  2. skibladner

    skibladner Peon

    Messages:
    1,149
    Likes Received:
    20
    Best Answers:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    0
    #2
    You expose yourself to your kids - GROSS

    Cultural difference i guess
     
    skibladner, Jul 28, 2007 IP
  3. Jerlene.net

    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

    Messages:
    11,975
    Likes Received:
    463
    Best Answers:
    1
    Trophy Points:
    385
    #3
    It's okay. Not like they're 15 and 16.
     
    Jerlene.net, Jul 28, 2007 IP
  4. KGL

    KGL Peon

    Messages:
    1,155
    Likes Received:
    30
    Best Answers:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    0
    #4
    I assume your from India.
     
    KGL, Jul 28, 2007 IP
  5. gerritpoel

    gerritpoel Active Member

    Messages:
    711
    Likes Received:
    27
    Best Answers:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    70
    #5
    I think he is from the Middle East..
     
    gerritpoel, Jul 28, 2007 IP
  6. Jerlene.net

    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

    Messages:
    11,975
    Likes Received:
    463
    Best Answers:
    1
    Trophy Points:
    385
    #6
    Where it's ok to murder for the dumbest reason but not ok to have a bath with your babies? Nice.
     
    Jerlene.net, Jul 28, 2007 IP
  7. skibladner

    skibladner Peon

    Messages:
    1,149
    Likes Received:
    20
    Best Answers:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    0
    #7
    Assumptions! Assumptions!

    And yeah, cultural differences aplenty, for example middle Easterners particularly dislike being forced to huddle together naked, being piled on top of each other, being urinated and defecated upon etc. while it's no more than a fraternity initiation ritual for americans.
     
    skibladner, Jul 28, 2007 IP
  8. SeagullSid

    SeagullSid Active Member

    Messages:
    394
    Likes Received:
    5
    Best Answers:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    58
    #8
    Personally I never bathed with my kids when they were pre-school and I don't remember my parents bathing with me.
     
    SeagullSid, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  9. Night Owl

    Night Owl Peon

    Messages:
    432
    Likes Received:
    2
    Best Answers:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    0
    #9
    We often bathed or showered with our son when he was little. And we got dressed, changed clothes or whatever with him around- never hid our bodies away. I think it gives a child a sense that bodies are natural, not things to be ashamed of.

    When he was about 8 we asked a children's psychologist if it was ok to be doing this kind of thing around him, and she said yes, it was fine, until the point where he said he was uncomfortable with it or acted embarassed.
     
    Night Owl, Jul 29, 2007 IP
  10. gauravjain26

    gauravjain26 Peon

    Messages:
    846
    Likes Received:
    115
    Best Answers:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    0
    #10
    is that something you should discuss ??? i am not sure

    anyways i dont think theres any problem untill you havent heard about swimming
     
    gauravjain26, Jul 29, 2007 IP