Now a days the family courts are flooded with divorce cases. Why is there an increase in the number of the divorce divorce cases in the recent times? Is there anything wrong in the present system of marriage or with the society? Is this a healthy trend for the future? What is the solution for this evil? According to me, the marriages fail due to: 1. The presense of superiority complex between the couples; 2. Disrespect to the views and feelings of one another; 3. Loss of trust between the couples; 4. Jealousy on the career growth of the other; 5. Excessive possessiveness; 6. Over expectations from each other; 7. Absense of feeling of oneness and sacrificing tendency between the couples; 8. Abesnse of the sharing of ill feelings about each other. Now the question is how to find a solution to the above problems and lead a healthy married life. The Vedas, under the Hindu Mythology has very good solution for this problems as listed below; 1. Bring a feeling in the mind that one had entered into martial life to serve the almighty and the society; 2. Practice to forget the I, my and the myself in the mind; 3. Pracice to bestow love and effection on the other partner; 4. Give respect to the views and feelings of each other; 5. Control anger and avoid the tendency to argue; 6. Forgive the mistakes of each other; 7. Develop the tendency to sacrifice for others. U am sure that if the couples follow the art of living specified in the vedic science no marriages will break Further, if the people follow this vedic advice it shall be a place of happuness and no doubt thie beautiful world would be a heaven in itself. Further Am sure that th couples who had broken their marraige will surely not be healthy as the absence of mental peace would lead them to diseases like high blood pressure, diabetes, cardiac arrest etc. When the vedic science of the hindu myhtology provides us "Art Of Living" why not avail the benefits of the same and lead a happy and healthy life.......
One does not just have to wish...but actually make an effort continuously to have a successful and healthy married life! Marriage is nothing but loving, caring and sharing. I have been trying to do the same since last 14 years... Regards, RightMan
I believe I had a successful realationship of 14 yrs. were not married. why fix something that isnt broken. Marriage changes things for some reason, coming from parents that has re-married 3 times each. Its just a piece of paper and we are still happy. were the only ones still together in our "group" of friends, everyone else got married and divorced within a year..
I am happily married and I will advise those who don’t believe in this institution. To have a successful and happy married life, you need to be good friends and forgive and forget. Try ignoring each others mistakes, and love each other for better or worse.
I've seen 10 years courtships that ended up in marriage but later broke up barely a year later due to differences. Sometimes it's about understanding and sacrificing for each others needs
People marry with expectation of happy married life but now a days due to a lot of misunderstanding,relationship is being broken.
I have married and living happy life! The couple who have understanding nature and patience will be leading their happy life!
in view months i m going to do love come arrange marriage, so my heartily is to lead a successful and healthy married life.