http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGcAzX9E3qU Heres a woman who was beaten while the husband made the kids watch and videotape it. I aslo had a friend of mine call me up this morning and was boo hooing about how her sisters boyfriend/husband beat her up last night and was in bad shape. Same old song: if I were a man I'd go over there and beat him up! I'm like why? Shes been to "married" to this dope slingin a-hole forever and nothings changed. She makes the money he sponges off her and she is very attractive! She obviously likes the arrangement or she would get someone else. Plus you jump in your the bad guy...not him. I see it every day women love the bad boys and no goods and the good guys are just too boring. So I don't see why we don't just leave them alone.
I hate it when a man hit a woman regardless what the reason is. That man should received severe punishment so he could learn how to respect a woman.
I hate it too but what can you do? You can punish him and she'll move onto another man just as bad or worse or she'll be back with him. You can punish the guys all you want but it's the woman who has change her taste in men. I've seen it a million times. If women rejected those men they would have motivation to change because women wouldn't want them.
I don't see why she want to go back at him. If she does, then she's way beyond help. Unless she help herself, we can just watch. Maybe when we fall in love we're blind to see who our partner really is. But if they accept the guy for a second time, then like you said, those guys will never learn.