Usually I first start talking to girls for looks... I am guilty of never giving not-so-hot girls a chance.
People say that looks is not the main thing they look for in a partner but i think the real truth is that physical attraction between two people is usually the first step in the start of a relationship. Its like the non verbal ice breaker that makes you want to approach and talk to the other person. It after the initial meeting that one usually either wants to find out more in that other person beyond their physical appearance or it was just their looks that was the only attraction. Its take time to find a persons inner beauty and people are so quick to judge on just looks....... sad but true For me its compatiability is no.1 things that will determine how successful a relationship will be longterm, looks are equal no.2 with personally type which sort of all linked to no.1 really
Look does matter because it's natural thing for human to love something that is beautiful or look nice. But once you get into the relationship, good attitude and personalities are what matter most to me instead of look. - Dynashox -
Good looking is an important matter. It’s so nice to have a pretty girl friend, and it does matter to me. But I really give attitude and talent more priority than the outlook of a girl .
I think it really matters but for me, what is more important is that the attitude and over-all personality of that person.
Unfortunately...yes, the looks do matter....at least initially. Looks are the starting point of attraction which bring people closer...and their hearts determine thereafter, how long they remain closer! Regards, RightMan