Does anyone else here hate being single?

Sometimes, it bothers me. Sometimes it doesn't. But at my age, I think I would rather have that special someone to care for me, and vice versa. And to be honest, I think my only chance for true love would come with another autistic person.

I hate those scummy sex workers who go on adultwork.com, OnlyFans or X and spout sexist remarks, and practice findom and all that crap, not remotely caring about what lonesome men they're ripping off and trying to degrade. The ones claiming to be a dominatrix are often just saying that, because they don't even work in the BDSM sector.

Most of the ones who do have a lousy attitude, because they call men who send them cash or presents derogatory terms like simps, and that isn't very well mannered dialogue to use, to be honest. But there are some decent escorts and dommes too. They are rare, but they are out there, and even they disapprove of such snowflakes trying to con gullible men.

Dating sites are just pointless, as they have all this gimmicky rubbish or catch-22 issues. There's one where you basically buy a little image of a heart or a bottle of alcohol, etc, and send it to the person you're interested in. However, I bet dozens of other guys are doing the same thing, and she's finding it hilarious that people are being this naive.

I don't think adultwork.com is up to much. There's too many arrogant women on it who just never want to give you the time of day. Fake profiles are another issue, but fortunately they are usually easy to spot. The photos and presentation is all enticing, sure. But then again, eye candy is meant to be pretty. It's just a shame their aura doesn't match their beauty.

The ladies with a high amount of feedback are normally these rough and cutthroat types that zap the pleasure out of punting. You cannot even get any banter going with them before proposing a booking. They have too many rules about things, and it just comes across as too demanding.

Chit-chat is also out the door. Although granted, most of them just don't give a toss about your interests or you as a person, like "sarahk" once said on this very forum. Their main goal is money. They soon display a lot of unnecessary hostility.

You know it's sad when somebody goes to a mental health forum, pretending to be a troll and calling you the 'C' word in a DM. Then she cries to a lawyer that you're harassing her, when I was just trying to fathom why we fell out. It's just because they don't especially like nor understand how disabled people think, or they erroneously consider people they perceive as a threat to be detrimental to their business. They think they're high class.

I think they've got a personality disorder, to be honest. But I more or less just gave up giving a damn after going through years of nonsense, and only gaining success once in a blue moon. Although maybe I will try one of those 'take me to you' bookings. Maybe I will achieve better luck doing that for a change, but I doubt it.

 

If I had a dollar for every time someone threatened to go after me legally online, I would have a great deal of money.

As to being single I have been so by choice for quite awhile now. I don't care much for useless drama and false words. I take my pleasure from fine wine, fine music, and fine artwork. I do not require any other diversions.

 

The next time I feel like I am choking for my hole, I will just spend my dosh on my horror collection. I'm about done with these deceptive whores anyway, mainly because of their shitty attitude. And especially after one ripped me off 3 months ago by not refunding my deposit, when she had zero intention of fulfilling the meet.

They very rarely want to come to Edinburgh anyway. That annoys me, as some of them are so darn hot looking, but they are based in England or abroad. Unless you're shelling out for their travel expenses, of course. But I know a local sauna that's cheap and more within one's budget. What they're charging online is an insult.

Paying £100 to the lady and £25 to get in the massage parlour is reasonable. On AW, they want way too much for extras, and you should see what they charge for an out call.

This LadyBellaBird is a weirdo.

 

Get yourself up and out meeting people. Don't stay in most of the day or evening peeing about on the internet or watching too much television, it ain't good for you and there's nothing wrong with joining a dating site - just make sure when you do have loads of dates you share the bill.

 

I'm in my early 40s now I crave companionship but never found the right girl. Being single has its advantages but it gets lonely at times.

 

Online dating sites are trash. Girls have too many options so conversations amount to nothing, they always think they can do better, even though they bring nothing to the table themselves.

 

Look at the firthy, vulgar languge that you use. Do you asuume that any woman with an ounce of self respect would associate with a cretin like you? You write about attitude, clean yours up. In the meantime understand that you get out of life what you put in. Try growing up and becoming a man instead of comng across like an immature teenager.

 

You're not actually suggesting the "modern girl" brings something to the table? What do they offer? They can't even cook FFS not to mention being shitty in the sack. Girls aren't looking for love as they get older they're looking for security. Only a sucker would be foolish enough to get involved. Rant over. Truth hurt much?

 

Full disclosure: I have been married for decades, so I am absolutely not current on this subject. However, I have seen articles over the past few years about matchmakers who hire out to find their client the right match to marry. I assume that they charge thousands for this service, but if you are paying hundreds or more for massage parlors, etc., it might be worth exploring such a service.