Does anybody know a tool to monitor 3 way linking?

I am doing a lot of 3 way linking and i was wondering if there is a tool where i can just input a list of my link partners URLs and have the program check if these URLs are still linking to my specific URL

 

Here's a good Software for managing 3 way links (or one way) and reciprocal links on multiple sites from one place.
It also supports contextual or content links instead of just ordinary directory links.
webmasterlagoon.com/wl-links-manager.php