Do you think you can be kind if you want or stop being greedy? Sometimes my friends tell me that i cant keep a secret and i said i can change but i also still cant , i like telling stories and gossips however recently i felt i am being tested by some friends to keep secrets and i manged to keep them well I think i may have changed ..
Absolutely, you can change. It isn't easy, but if you want it bad enough, you can overpower your character through sheer will. It is a slow process, though. And the change isn't always permanent.
many times i thought that i change myself sometimes i control myself but this wants a great power called self power to stop your self.
Your character is controlled by yourself and external environment. You can definitely make a conscious efforts to change your unconscious behavior, this takes a lot of time and efforts, but yes it is definitely possible.
Anyone can change, it's just a matter of excersing your free will, just come up with a new preoccupation, to replace the old habit, like a smoker, can desire to change smoking habits like giving thier hands and mind a new preoccupation One can take up crosstiching which can become very addictive replacing smoking, by picking up the project every thing takes time, dont beat yourself up if you made progress and then took 2 steps back, just pick up and try again soon, the new habit will take over!
I disguise my character for others but my real character is widelt different from the present (disguised)one....
I think there must be something like a psychological trauma for a character to change like being dumped by bf or gf, death of a parent or friend... these really change people many stoped smoking after an event and many started