Do you think it is possible to be "just friends" with the opposite gender?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by melbel, Aug 6, 2010.

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Is it possible to be friends with the opposite gender?

  1. No, it is not possible to be friends with the opposite gender.

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  2. Yes, but only if you haven't dated the person.

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  3. Yes, it's possible, even after dating the person.

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  1. #1
    Two questions here, really. Do you think it's possible to be friends with the opposite gender?
    What about after dating the person and the relationship doesn't work out, do you think it's possible to be just friends after that?
     
    melbel, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  2. Digital_shubhi

    Digital_shubhi Illustrious Member

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    Well, yes I think its possible! :)
    I have seen many who are just friends!
     
    Digital_shubhi, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  3. burnash

    burnash Peon

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    I think it is possible, my best friend is a girl, but you will always have thoughts when drunk etc, its nature!
     
    burnash, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  4. Hollow

    Hollow Well-Known Member

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    No. A heterosexual man and a woman can never be platonic friends, unless one of them is gay. This happens because the male is constantly consumed by the idea of sleeping with her. Every man who says he will not sleep with his female friend if given the chance, is a liar. If however they do become 'friends', in the long run it will always evolve into a romantic relationship. It's as they say: Friends can become lovers, lovers can't become friends.
    If the friendship doesn't not become a romantic relationship, then this is interfered by outside causes (lifestyle, not being single etc.) but you should know that both friends would have fantasized for a considerable amount of time how it would be like if they were together in a romantic relationship a.k.a fucking each other. That is all.
     
    Hollow, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  5. msk19994

    msk19994 Well-Known Member

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    i think its possible but by Hollows comments i can also say that now ur just friends but in the future ull be married !Happy Marriage
     
    msk19994, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  6. Cyb3rgh0st_

    Cyb3rgh0st_ Greenhorn

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    well yeh . i have a gr8 freind who is a girl i am not gay lol !!
    we have been freinds since high school and i dont see the prob with it :p shes awsome freind and i would never think of her anyless even if i had dated her
     
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  7. mypctechs

    mypctechs Greenhorn

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    It's only possible if the girl is completely turned off by the guy. The guy is always going to want something more, unless like someone else said he's gay. The girl, on the other hand, can always keep a guy as a friend and never move past that stage if she's completely unattracted to him.

    Let this be a note - if you've been a 'friend' of a girl for a long time and haven't gotten any further than that, you're probably unattractive. :)
     
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  8. etc

    etc Well-Known Member

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    indeed itsnot possible.
    really not possible. even if the girl is completely turned off. tequilla will do the thing..
     
    etc, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  9. Huldra1980

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    I think it's possible, but can get tricky if one wants more. Personally, I lost a friendship that way...
     
    Huldra1980, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  10. derek53

    derek53 Peon

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    Yes if your gay or lesbian !!!
     
    derek53, Aug 7, 2010 IP